by Chuanyang Chee, Ron Chung, and Andreas Weigend
Curious about the best response to the question from IDEAS PROJECT last week?
Here is what Ron said about a “friend” in the era of the social data revolution:
There are two types of ‘friends’, (i) real ‘close-to-heart’ personal friendships, and (ii) online social friendships.
(i) In real personal friendships you more carefully screen and maintain that relationships. In these situations, you provide more physical and emotional attention compared to online relationships.
(ii) Online social friendships form to maintain touchpoints with people we interact with (sort of like a large addressbook). In the context of consumer internet and social networks/media, an online ‘friend’ is someone you form a weak connection through some form of engagement. This engagement can occur through real world meeting or simply an online exchange (e.g. blog comments, Twitter message, etc).
Also, in these online friendships, there is ambiguity around bilateral versus unilateral ‘friendships’. For example, Twitter uses ‘followers’ & Facebook uses ‘fans’ to represent unidirection relationships and Facebook uses ‘friends’ to denote bilateral friendships. However, some Facebook ‘friendships’ are not truly bilateral. They are simply ways for one side to collect ‘friends’ for the sake of amassing a large audience. All of this points to a desire for people maintain touchpoints with people through online medium should they ever want to re-engage them.
In the end, online social friendships give us ambient awareness of what is going on with people, giving us a type of “reality-TV news” channel.
Daphna Oyserman suggested:
My favorite one-liner came from Jason Wei in my Stanford class:
My own points (to the degree anyone can have their own points after reading through hundreds of responses) would be, that a friend to me is:
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This survey on the Social Data Revolution was developed by Chuanyang and Andreas and taken by Spring 2010 students at Stanford’s The Social Data Revolution, and Tsinghua’s The Digital Networked Economy.
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